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Friday, December 30, 2011

22 years ago today...

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22 years ago tonight, I went to my first Grateful Dead show. So, I thought I'd tell the story. Why not, right? I KNOW! Too bad it's not very interesting. Maybe you can tell your own story in the comments?


So, I had this boyfriend in college... blah blah blah.... I actually thought I was going up to just visit him in the Bay Area; I was living in Santa Barbara at the time. But, since I had never been to a show before, I didn't know what I was really in for. So, he brought me to the Oakland Coliseum on December 30, 1989. He had a ticket, and of course I didn't, except I'm pretty sure I got miracled that night (meaning, somebody gave me a ticket for free) but, maybe not, because NYE shows are impossible to get tickets for, so who would have miracled me? I don't know, it was a long time ago. Anyway, I made it inside.

My purpose for the evening, however, wasn't to go to a show, because I had no idea what that even meant. All I knew of the Grateful Dead was Touch of Grey, which was okay, I guess, but a little poppy (poppie?).  My purpose, on that day, was to find and take some Ecstasy... which I very much succeeded at doing. YAY! So, we went inside, and found ourselves a seat up in the bleachers or something, I don't know, and all I remember was looking at this giant crowd of people and saying "oooohhhh myyyy goooodddddd...... look at all the peeeooppllllleeeee" and being just so impressed at the size of the crowd. I'm pretty sure my boyfriendatthetime wasn't as impressed as I was. Okay, he had been there before. Whatever. It was new to me; and awesome. So awesome. I didn't even know the music, but the music was so awesome. SO AWESOME. It was only until I tried it again at the next set of shows that I realized it wasn't just the drugs that was making it awesome; it was just awesome.

Here's the setlist. Most of you won't care. Some of you will care a smidge:
Oakland Coliseum, Oakland CA (12/30/89)

Bertha
Good Lovin'
Sugaree
Walkin' Blues
Jack-a-Roe
Masterpiece
West L.A. Fadeaway
Music Never Stopped

Jack Straw
China Cat Sunflower
I Know You Rider
Estimated Prophet
Terrapin Station
drums
I Will Take You Home
The Other One
Standing on the Moon
One More Saturday Night

Baby Blue
Anyway, that was the beginning of almost 6 years of bliss. I wish I had gone sooner. I'd had the chance, but I didn't know what was waiting for me so I'd opted out. I was dumb. I miss it. Go listen if you don't believe me.



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I love this so much. I only went to two Dead shows and one Jerry show before he died, but they completely changed my perspective. At my first show, I went with my now-husband and a couple that he was friends with. After the show we couldn't find his car. We walked that parking lot FOREVER. It was at Shoreline, so there were a lot of cars. It was totally hysterical.

Also, I used to have that round sticker on my car. You bring me memories today.
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When was it? I wonder if I was there....
9-18-94, I think. They opened with Touch of Grey, which at the time was the only song I knew. The Days Between blew me away. I still don't think I've recovered from it.
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I only saw the Grateful Dead once, and it was one of their last shows. My friends and I drove from Virginia to Vermont and I'll never forget the experience.
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I saw them in Syracuse in 1982. It was the very first concert I had ever been to. What a way to pop the concert cherry. I only went to one other Dead show...Philly in 93, I think. No drugs taken at either. But mind blown anyway.

Happy anniversary :)
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You only went to a few and you've lived here your whole life???
I saw the Grateful Dead once - September 3rd, 1977, their Labor Day Weekend outdoor concert at Raceway Park in Englishtown NJ. At that time, possibly the largest concert crowd since Woodstock. I was 17, just graduated High School, there with my last H.S. boyfriend and a bunch of other friends camping out in a tent. Wearing a long denim skirt I had made out of a pair of opened up blue jeans with purple velvet filling in the V. Shirt? I don't remember, since for some good bit of the time I wasn't wearing it. ;-) (Told you I had a wild and varied past.)

Also New Riders of the Purple Sage & Marshall Tucker Band played full sets first. It was a long, loooong, wild, hot (100) day. Set list? Thanks to the wonders of the internet, yes:
Promised Land
They Love Each Other
Me and My Uncle
Mississippi Half-Step
Looks Like Rain
Peggy-O
New Minglewood Blues
Friend of the Devil
Music Never Stopped

Bertha
Good Lovin'
Loser
Estimated Prophet
Eyes of the World
Samson and Delilah
He's Gone
Not Fade Away
Truckin'

Terrapin Station
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LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!
You know, I'm jealous of your hippy-esque experience. I've never done anything really fun. Sure, I smoked a doob, but that was in my 20's. Blech to getting old and boring and falling apart!
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I've never been, perhaps too square and slightly too young, bit I love how you all remember the day, date, circumstances and your mental state at you very first show. I'm sure no one feels that way the first time they hear something on Pandora. Live music is music in a way that nothing can compare.
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Oh boy... Went to see the Dead a few times at Buckeye Lake? in Ohio. I don't know I just remember it was outside and it was like no other show ever! ALthough it was outside there was a parking lot area & then an area that you got into only with tickets.

It was like a city outside the concert- makeshift vendor things set up or something (okay I was on acid & a few other things so my memory not so great...) but anyways I remember people selling shirts and food & other deadhead stuff. And of course people selling acid and other stuff.
Inside the concert area was massive. There was people (tons of people) directly in front of the stage that were standing watching the show but then off to the sides there were areas were people were sort of dancing- kind of like a mosh pit but not moshing against each other. Then areas where people were passed out or just crashed out. The show was amazing.
There was security there but we just laughed at that. Guess they were there just to keep anything too horrible from happening.
We pretty much had to stay all night because there was no getting out of the parking lot anytime soon...
Lots of fun times there. Pure crazyness. Recently I went to a jimmy buffet concert outside & it was pretty cool but still not nearly the same experience as the Dead.
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I never got to see the Grateful Dead :(

My Aunt and Uncle (who each, separately, followed the Dead before they met each other) were dedicated (deadicated?) fans, and my Uncle has a discarded library card catalog with the drawers full of concert tapes. They took me to see Phish, once, a few years after Jerry had died, but even though there might be some overlap in the crowd, the music isn't the same to me at all.
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smelly hippie

actually I think it's cool you attach memories to your concerts. Twenty one years, two weeks ago I saw Bob Dylan and Joni Michell (met Joni) and mid December always makes me think of that weird moment in time.

cool post

Happy New Year, hippie
Very cool. I went to LOTS of concerts in my college days, but never saw Grateful Dead :(
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