I love the Onion. Love them. LOVE. But I'm honestly not sure if this is funny or not. I mean....I
want to laugh. I
get this. But I don't really know... is this funny? Is it mean? What do you guys think? What do you guys who don't have any connection to autism think? (don't be afraid to tell me, please, I want to know your opinion).
Discuss....
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This.. im NOT a fan of. I think you're right.. it was ALMOST funny.. they missed the mark. I quit watching Tosh.O for the same reason. He decided some time back to replace the word "retarded" with "autistic" during an episode. Funny is one thing. Insulting is just mean.
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Squatlo · 727 weeks ago
If it had been a piece on someone reporting with a speech impediment (lisp?) or with crossed eyes, or with a debilitating case of OCD (repeatedly straightening and arranging items in the background during their report) we would have fewer problems with this, I guess. Personally, I like the fact that even the subject matter most near and dear to our hearts ALWAYS receives the same irreverent treatment from these guys.
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lhand0124 49p · 727 weeks ago
With this, I think they took the "it's funny 'cause it's true" thing and crossed the line. I will say, however, that the actor did a good job. The script was the problem for me.
Likely I'm over analyzing it.
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Rachel · 727 weeks ago
It's not cool to continue the stereotype that we're a bunch of unempathetic robots who only care about objects. The fact that it's being done "in fun" doesn't change its potential destructiveness. If it were generally understood that we are full-fledged human beings with an acute amount of sensory and emotional sensitivity, I wouldn't have a hard time with a video making fun of anyone who is ignorant of that fact. But the video is making fun of autistic people; it is not making fun of ignorance about autistic people. It's just furthering that ignorance. That has a real-life impact upon how people see us and treat us.
Having been the recipient of an anti-Semitic slur on another blog this week, I've come to the conclusion that the right of free speech ends when the speech furthers stereotypes about a vulnerable population who may very well suffer because of it. And if we want to allow that kind of speech, we have a responsibility to howl about how wrong it is. I'm really surprised to see autism parents who are on the fence about this video, or thought it was funny. The kinds of attitudes expressed by the video have serious consequences for your children's lives. They're going to enter a society in which this kind of ignorance is pervasive, and trust me, it will have a serious impact upon them in a myriad of ways. It's time to fight it, not laugh at it.
Brayden's Mom · 726 weeks ago
I don't see how anyone could find this funny. As a parent, I don't think it's funny that people were looking at this "autistic" man like he was a weirdo or treating him like he was ignorant. Is that really the message we want out there about those with autism? Yes, it's a satire, but that doesn't mean the core message of it won't resonate with people and be detrimental to our kids.
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Sarah · 727 weeks ago
My brother is (mildly) on the spectrum and we joke with him about his quirks as we do my husband, mother, father (not me, I'm perfect, smile).
Everyone is different. If you can't laugh at yourself...
I look forward to reading what others have to say.
Rachel · 727 weeks ago
What I can't laugh at is someone furthering stereotypes about autistic people not having human feeling, for the simple reason that it's dehumanizing and has utterably bad consequences for our lives. And I can't laugh at it because, frankly, I have an overabundance of empathy for what it feels like to be part of any group that has to endure these kinds of attacks on their humanity.
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lhand0124 49p · 727 weeks ago
There's something different about laughing good naturedly at some of our quirks, and what was done in this video.
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Rachel · 727 weeks ago
Apparently, we autistics don't get the same kind of consideration. That shows you just how deep the stereotypes are, and how many people wrongly consider them justified.
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About as lame as this comment.
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Cactusinyrpants 59p · 727 weeks ago
I am not in the Autistic community, nor do I really know any autistic kids.
So, this is kinda what I thought an exaggerated version of one would look like.
Frankly, it's adorable, but he is a grown man so that makes it disturbing and funny.
The trouble is when you try to personalize it, by thinking "my autistic kid is not like that" instead of picking one or two traits that ring bells and laughing at yourself.
Besides, the victim in the story was hispanic, so.... who cares right?!
Rachel · 727 weeks ago
This is really depressing.
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Cactusinyrpants 59p · 727 weeks ago
I expect an Onion piece to be ironic. To involve autism brings it to the main stream, and out of the protected groups. I think if autism is to be part of general society and accepted as something some people just have and that's the way it is, then this is right on the money.
autismandoughtisms 31p · 727 weeks ago
It's purposefully exagerrating what an autistic person can be like - the passion for trains, the challenges of engaging with people and not picking up on the subtle social behavioural cues, etc. With this type of comedy there is always a chance people will walk away with their stereotypes confirmed, but that doesn't mean that the rest of us who are fully aware of the truths of autism, have to carefully not laugh and instead deeply furrow our brows and lecture others. It is so very important that we find a way to laugh at the challenges that autism poses - there's a time to be serious, and a time to just not take it all so seriously; we don't have to be deadly serious all the time. Whether this particular video in all its glory was funny or not - well it had its moments. My husband laughed out loud, and I managed a smile and a bit of a cringe, and that's just fine. No single form of humour appeals to everyone anyway.
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Rachel · 726 weeks ago
It's all too easy to laugh at something that doesn't affect your life. I get that. But I'm not getting how anyone could be laughing when something furthers widely held and altogether disgusting stereotypes about your children's humanity. Do you really want them living in a world in which people think it's very, very funny to portray them as caring more about objects than people? Most people already think that about them. They think that your children's empathy -- and thus, their basic humanity -- is sub-par.
Does that not concern you? Do you think that somehow they'll be immune from it all? They won't. Trust me. They won't.
This isn't overthinking. It's thinking about consequences, and caring about the devastation that stereotypes cause to people's lives. Maybe if it doesn't happen to you, you can pass it off. But it happens to me, and to a hell of a lot of other people, and I can't pass it off. Not now, and not ever.
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Brayden's Mom · 726 weeks ago
When items are put out there, even if meant to be "funny", they can still resonate with people. People who don't know better (which, let's face it, is a majority of society) will look at this and think "Wow! That's how people with autism are?" And when people think/feel this way and take this stereotype and apply it to every autistic person they meet, it's not so funny anymore. It's not funny when other parents don't want their kids around my "weird" kid because of information spread like this. It's not funny when employers won't give an autistic person the time of day because "well, you know, they can't have relationships with people/co-workers, etc. They can't have decent conversations, they can't focus on what needs to be done, etc." So, no...it's not funny.
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pixelpixie83 · 726 weeks ago
We live in an area of NYC where the subway runs overground, and every morning, my husband and I walk our son toward his daycare program. I have to take the subway into the city, so we say goodbye on the sidewalk near the station, and I have to tickle him to get him to stop drooling over the train and look at me to realize I'm saying goodbye. I can see that some people might find the video offensive, but it's just crude humor--the purpose of which is to make people chuckle, not to portray an accurate portrait of autistic people. So it cant be judged by those terms, IMHO. For THIS parent who is struggling to find the joy in life when she is realizing that everything in regard to raising her son is going to be way, way harder than she bargained for, this video offered a welcome chance to just laugh.
Katherine · 725 weeks ago
I get that it might hit too close to home for some. But, shit, I'm used to dealing with stereotypes and prejudices and you know I'm a biracial woman adopted by a greek family raised with a gay brother and a single mother to a child with autism. So, yeah, I suppose I have developed something like a healthy immunity about this kind of broad character portrayal unless there malicious or hateful intent behind it. This is just really pretty tame in my eyes.
I liked the actor, actually. Thought he was sort of awesome. I am so f****** tired of hearing he same details about airplanes from my kid. They got that part spot on. missing the gestalt of things and focusing on random details, facts, and one sided conversations about perseverative interests. And running away from people. (!) My kid lays down on the floor and closes his eyes and plays dead sometimes when strangers try to ask him a question. I mean at one point you have to be able to laugh. It wasn't the funniest thing I have ever seen on the onion, but it certainly made perfect sense as a satire.
sense of humor aside, I have to say I have met many people who have gone through most of their lives in a lucky way and were never confronted regularly with stereotypes and jokes that feel personal to them or beloved family members. They didn't become intimately familiar what it was like to live as an outsider or a second or third class citizen until autism entered their lives. And frankly, I think it's good for this specific small group of people to get all riled up and offended and hope they can generalize their anger and use it to develop empathy for other groups who have been subjected to humor at their expense for their entire lives. You and your children are not the first people on earth to be portrayed with broad stereotypes for comic effect. I laugh if the humor is based in some broad basic truths and exaggerated to the point of ridiculous just for the hell of it. I don't laugh if it's mean spirited or hateful. Which I didn't find this to be.
What I find offensive, personally, is people who are angry and push for inclusion and acceptance for autism but not inclusion and acceptance for all people. i'm with the poster above who said being part of the mainstream culture includes such perks like being fodder for a stupid onion news story, just like everyone else.
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